Kicking etiquette Restrains and rules

 

Regarding etiquette I now want to move on and talk about actually administering the kicks. Lets assume the man has arrived at the location and a brief discussion has taken place. Then man now knows his sentence and its ready to be administered.

Restrains

Depending on the severity of the punishment depends on whether restraint is needed. Some women may prefer using it anyway as it makes things easier and helps them to feel safe. For less serious punishments the man can be left untied but if more extreme pain is to be given then restraint may be essential. Each man has a different tolerance for pain so it can be hard to decide if restraint is needed. One way of thinking is to start off without restraint then use it later on if needed.

A good way to look at it is to think about rupture. If rupture is planned or likely to happen then restraint is essential. If rupture is unlikely then you may not need it. As a man feels rupture he experiences a high degree of pain. This is intentional and perfectly natural. It also goes to prove how effective rupture is as a method of punishment.

But because the pain is high a man will not be able to remain standing as it happens. So restraining him is a good idea and it also makes it easy to continue kicking after a testicle has ruptured which is recommended in most cases.

If a man is restrained well then in will make a kicking session where rupture is planned much easier for the woman. The process will go much more smoothly as the man will be held still and aiming will be easier. This then allows the male to experience rupture in an ethical and equitable way as part of fair discipline. Then the session can continue long after rupture to further increase the quality of the punishment.

Rules for Unrestrained kicking

The woman is in charge and should always lead so she asked the man to undress. The man should then be told to stand with legs parted and arms behind the back to receive kicks. The man should be told that this is the position he should try he hardest to maintain.

Any rules should be told to the man here are some standard ones.

1, the male will always be polite and act respectfully

2, the male will try to remain still to aid in delivering on target kicks. Also No flinching.

3, After taking a kick the man will return to the position quickly

4, No excessive shouting, screaming or swearing.

5, The male will follow all instructions.

6, the male will not beg for mercy or ask for the punishment to be stopped or decreased.

If the male breaks any of these rules then he will be made to take some kind of penalty. This is typically either adding additional kicks to the session or the use of ethical penis burning. When penalty kicks are added they should be given with more force than normal kicks to help the male tell the difference between normal kicks and penalty ones. This will help him to learn from the mistake.

Typically if the rule broken is small a few kicks are added but for larger breaks penis burning is recommended. Penis burning is good because it can be done to a male ethically and in a way that benefits both parties. It helps to create a fair and equitable consequence for the man breaking a rule which is why it is often recommended.

The man should be told that if he breaks a rule there is no discussion the woman will tell him what he did and his penalty. For instance if after a kick the man takes too long to return to position he take 3 extra kicks.  

Or for asking for a reduction in kicks the male is sentenced to 5, 4 second contacts with the flame to the flesh of his penis. She then tells him that to ensure the punishment is fair and equitable she has the right to add additional contacts after the 5 have been given. Then as the woman believes the punishment is fair and her rights have been respected the use of the flame is ethically sound.

To give the man the flame it’s probably best to have him kneel down with his back against something. This will prevent him from instinctively pulling back. In this position the woman can move the candle until it is touching the area she wishes then move it slowly while counting. As he feels the flame the male fights to be quiet and still to show he is willing to learn from his mistake and to make the session easier for the woman.

After a contact with the flame the male is given a short time to process the pain then the next burn is given. This then continues for as long as the woman pleases. It’s a good idea to start on the shaft of the penis for the first few burns then if the woman wishes the man to feel additional pain the tip of his penis can be targeted. This part of his penis is more sensitive and responds very well to a flame so it’s good to include it.  

With both penalty methods if the male commits a second breach the penalty is increased to help him learn he has behaved incorrectly. This will also deter him from doing it again.