Kicking etiquette.
Kicking etiquette.
As it has
come up in discussion I want to talk about the etiquette around testicle
kicking sessions. Testicle kicking is a very versatile and easily scalable way
to punish the testicles so it is quite common. Its also the preferred way to
punish men I the work place and is alos the most common way to administer
rupture. So lets go over what to do and what is expected for both the man and
the woman.
Basically
the woman is in charge and the man must obey. That is a general rule but things
are not always that easy so lets start from the beginning and go through it.
Session Initiated.
A session of
testicle kicking will be decided by a woman which starts the whole thing. It
might be the result of a trail or hearing, or it might be initiated because a
man broke a rule. This maybe done when the man is present or maybe not. So the
first step is for the woman to decide the nature of the session. In most cases
a set number of kicks will be decided or a kicking goal (kick until swollen or
kick until one ruptures for instance). This can be changed later but a general
idea needs to be decided because if the session is to be harsh then the man
would probably need to be restrained so that would have to be arranged. Restraint
is optional and a good man will cooperate enough so its not needed but
somewhere private will be needed for the punishment. A man will scream from
pain and you don’t want to be interrupted so a private area is essential.
Then if
there is a good risk of testicle injury medical care may be needed as well. Rupture
is not just painful it does require treatment so if this is your goal then that
perfectly fine but this needs to be thought about.
Once the
session has been roughly planned inform the man who is going to have his
testicles kicked. He maybe present so you can tell him or if he has a trail in
his absence or does not know of whats been planned then he needs to be told. This
can be done by phone call, text message, email.
It is
expected that the woman will give clear details to the man. Such as the time
and location of the punishment and an idea of what is happening. A woman does
not have to disclose the exact number of kicks or plan if she does not want to
or of she has not decided yet. Also its worth noting that if this is a work
place then the man may have important duties. It is nice if a woman is open to
some negotiation around the time of the session so as not to effect the running
of the company. But in such cases a man should so he is keen to work with the
woman I finding a good time for the session.
Also it is
expected of the woman that she will give a reason for the punishment. Its not
the woman’s job to educate the man or try train him so she can give as much
detail as she wants but a basic reason
is expected. So a woman needs to communicate that a punishment is happening,
when, where and why.
Now it is
expected a man will accept the situation. A punishment has been decided so he
will not offer objections or complaints. He is allowed to think what he wants
of the punishment but should keep that to himself, be cooperative and
accepting. If a man does complain or object then additional kicks should be
added to his sentence. A woman has told the man he is to be punished, she does
not want to hear what the man thinks about the ethics of that. Adding kicks is
a good way to help keep the situation professional and remind the man of his
place. So…
Women. Do
not be afraid to add more kicks if a man says the slightest thing wrong. This
will shut down objections and make him be careful to behave better and starts
things off well.
Men. Respect
the woman and don’t complain at her. She does not care what you think or what
to hear if you think testicle torture is evil. Just accept your fate and
cooperate. If she does add more kicks see it as a reminder to behave better and
accept them. Offer an apology so she know you have heard about the extension to
your punishment and understand you need it.
A man
should also do all he can to help make the session happen. For instance he
should do all he can to get to the location on time and if he can’t he needs to
communicate that and work with the woman to make the meeting work. This can be
done by just talking to each other and arranging it just like you do any other
meeting.
Then once a
time and place is booked a woman can postpone at any time but a man must make
the appointment. If a man is even a minute late then there will be kicks added
to the punishment. Even if the man could not prevent this more kicks will be
added.
Women. Be
fair and accept that accidents do happen so add kicks fairly. If the man could
not help being late due to a crash blocking traffic or meeting he could not get
out of running long then take that into account. But no matter what his punishment
must be increased. This will help maintain good discipline now and in the
future.
Men. Do all
you can to be on time. If you know you are going to be late contact the woman
and let her know. Then expect more kicks to be added. When contacting her to
advise her you will be late or as you turn up apologies for being late and
invite her to increase the number of kicks in the session. Accept you have
delayed things and that you must pay for that. Then accept her decision
regarding the increase.
Setting up
This might
be the first time you meet so a basic rule is that the woman is in charge. This
means the woman will have to give instructions and set the tone. In a lot of
cases there is no reason both parties cant great each other normally and engage
in small talk. What you are about to do is a common practice and for the man
especially this is a good way to show the woman that you are accepting of what
is to come.
Sadly there
is still some negativity around testicle punishment, especially if the man is
innocent or if the session is designed to cause rupture for a small offense. A
woman might actually be quite apprehensive if the goal is rupture and if its
only for a minor offense. So it’s a good way the man can show the woman that
what she wants to do is perfectly ok. This is a good way to help the woman or
at least break the ice.
Women. Be
welcoming and understand the man is possible very scared especially if the
punishment is to be destructive. A bit of small talk might help you both to
feel better and make the session go easier. This is obviously easier to do when
the man is not facing rupture but do what you can. Then be firm and clear with
your instructions and as you go over the plan again.
Men. Try to
avoid fear of punishment as an excuse and be polite and respectful. This woman
is doing her job and regardless of your views she has a right to be treated
with respect. So even if you are innocent or facing rupture be polite and do as
she tells you. Think about her feelings as well especially if you are facing
rupture while innocent or for a small crime. Try not to be selfish and think of
her. Telling her you understand the punishment is needed and that agree with it
can go a long way to helping her.
At this
stage the woman still does not need to reveal the full extent of the sentence unless
she wants to. Men tend to be easier to manage if they think they are only going
to receive a light punishment instead of rupture. So not telling him until he
is restrained is a good idea.
I’ll go
over the next stages in the next part. As always please feel free to discuss.
Hi Lucy, this is an Absolutely epic and probably overdue article you are writing and I can’t wait for the next part!! Don’t make us wait too long please!! I’m the man you were talking to recently on a different post. I have the strong durable balls that would give you some serious competition in a ball kicking session. Haha!! I had mentioned male etiquette so this is Great and is a must needed topic and definitely needs to be from the female perspective as the woman or women are totally in charge during a kicking, definitely agree with you Lucy. I also couldn’t agree more about talking with the woman whether it’s small talk or you both know each other. Most times before I’ve been kicked the woman/women always engage in conversation, it could be about ball kicking or anything. It adds a layer of comfort for both the man and woman. I’ve had times the woman and I are laughing and getting along like normal and then she’ll remind me how she’s gonna “kick my nuts into my throat later” and reality sets back in for us males. Most females have told me before we started that she would begin with light warm up kicks that will gradually get harder. Then they have usually told me when the “real kicking begins.” Lol!! I think that’s extremely fair of the woman to do. If not restrained somehow the male better stay in position and be quiet about it as well..(well at least for me) and the male certainly wants to get up back in position as fast as he can if he goes down from a kick while not restrained. That constant delaying I have learned does not make women happy and the next kick you can bet will be harder. I’ve been there I admit it. Lol!! Oh, and definitely don’t flinch!! Well, let me know your thoughts Lucy!! Great job and can’t wait for the next part!!
ReplyDeleteHi Lucy, thank you as always for responding. Yeah, I’ve been in a good amount of testicle kicking sessions I’ve been lucky or maybe unlucky depending on the male to be kicked from various females from ex girlfriends to female friends to a few doms. My honest thought on kicking sessions being used for male punishment is I mostly agree with them. I understand how us males are and that ball kicking from women is needed to keep order. Now, we may bump heads on rupture. Lol!! As a male with strong healthy testicles I in no way would want my balls ruptured. A man’s testicles make him a man..it’s what makes our gender so special and dominant. As a male why would I want to lose my manhood and be less of a man? I’m happy I was born with balls I don’t want to lose either of them. Now, for the crime of rape or crimes like that then I have no problem with it. It’s deserved. Now, I fully support kicking sessions and if the woman wound up rupturing a ball with her kicks then I guess those are breaks when you put your nuts on the line against a woman wanting to kick them. That’s a risk I feel the male can accept with a kicking session. I would not volunteer for rupture or want my balls ruptured. I’ll take the kicks and I’ll take them as long as I can but I myself want no part of rupture. That word just makes me squeamish. Lol!! You may not like all of what I had to say but I gave you my honest thoughts and I welcome your response Lucy. Lets see if we can agree on anything and where we disagree. Have a good one Lucy..And yes, I do truly believe I could hang in there against you in a kicking session. Hey, us guys need to be confident going into the session if not we are defeated before the kicking starts..
DeleteVery good instructions and valuable as testicle kicking is popular for good reason.
ReplyDeleteIn other news, I had my first session with the man I was telling you about and I have to say it left me feeling very positive. It felt nice to be handling another set of balls again even if it was in a professional setting. I feel the punishment they received was appropriate and well deserved. Before we started I talked to him a bit about the new policies and importantly got him to agree to their importance. Then we moved on to his work performance evaluation. We found three positives for which he was awarded 25 kicks off. However we also found a negative, increasing his kicks by 20, which left him with 75 kicks. I wore heels and punished his testicles with him fully undressed. Towards the end I felt like he was really benefiting from the punishment and the kicks were clearly causing his testicles a lot of pain. By the end they were quite swollen and bruised. I felt good about punishing them and I am looking forward to working with him in the coming weeks.
Wouldn't it be more fair for the man if we could develop a device for slowly rupturing testicles, I find kicking to be a bit hit or miss. I also end up with a bruised foot after an extended session.
DeleteHey Val, let me first be clear I am a male and have been talking a bit with Lucy on proper male etiquette when our testicles are being kicked. I want to thank you for sharing his 1st evaluation and I look forward to hearing about how his balls handle however many kicks you sentence him to on his 2nd evaluation!! When are evaluations every 2 weeks? As a male I’d like to say that was nice of you to talk with the man before hand as I’m sure he was getting nervous and as a man it always helps a bit with some small talk with the woman before I’m kicked. You wearing heels for his 75 kicks on his very first evaluation I would say sends a strong message from the very start that you are not playing around and intend to kick and possibly damage his testicles and kicks with heels are extremely hard to handle and the testicles can weaken quickly. I understand that the man must do what he is told but as a man myself I have to tell you I’m rooting for him to do well on his evaluations and hopefully not be broken by a woman. I do know the man is going to suffer as you sound like you know how to really kick a pair of balls. Being able to kick hard and accurately and do it consistently in heels is something not all women can do but unfortunately for your coworker it seems like you can. Well, as a guy with pretty strong balls I hope he does well and you gain some good information with his evaluations Val. Please feel free to share your thoughts and I hope you have many balls to kick in this new year.
DeleteTo the woman who mentioned bruising her foot during a testicle kicking….I am a male and must say cry me a river over hurting your kicking foot, the man is expected to stay in proper position while his testicles are kicked and become sore and swollen. I would say Man Up just as you would expect from the male.
DeleteI agree that the session sent the right message about the nature of the punishments, also I was pleased that there were both positives and negatives in his work performance which allowed him to learn how his own behavior would affect the future of his testicles going forward. He is fully intact for now but that could change as the extent of damage to the balls or the penis during punishment has not been limited. I am curious to see what kind of punishment his balls will require and I will keep you posted on his progress.
DeleteI am hoping to do a lot of ballbusting this year and I am really looking forward to the new male discipline policies extending over every man in the company.
Hey Val, I’m happy that you responded to me as I am very interested in how he handles his kicking punishments. My name is Jay just so you know who you’re talking to. As a man who has received testicle kicking as both punishment and just because the woman wanted to kick me and break me, I can vouch that your style of punishment with the many testicle kicks is an extremely effective way to get thru to a man. I think kicks are the best punishment you can give him and it’s a good skill to have as a woman so you kinda in a way get to practice your ball kicking at the same time. A win win for you. At my old job there was a woman who was a great lady and we were friends and eventually she became my direct supervisor and she would kick my balls usually in heels when I messed up. It definitely helps the male to not repeat the same mistake twice. I know how it goes.
DeleteIf you don’t mind me asking are you the only woman doing punishments at work? Is there a group you will form or is this a solo position? It doesn’t seem like you need any help breaking balls. Also, how was the man chosen to be the first to receive male discipline? Were you impressed or happy with how the man took his first evaluation? Is he nervous for his 2nd evaluation? I agree it was good for the man to receive both positives and negatives when reviewing his work. It’ll be interesting to see if you notice improvement immediately or for some of us guys it may take longer to get thru to us.
Well Val, I look forward to your response and thank you again for sharing his evaluation process. It’ll be great to see what results you find.
Wow!! That poor man seems to have a very tough road ahead of him at work.
ReplyDeleteHi Val, I am also a male and I am interested in how he handles and how his testicles handle the kicking punishments you will be giving him. Keep us posted on his progress please as I would think this system will curb male behavior for the better as well as work results improving. I mean that was his first evaluation and you kicked his exposed testicles 75 times with heels on. That man’s ball bag has gotta be extremely sore and they will probably just fully heal at the time of his second evaluation and have to endure another kicking. I think this is an excellent idea by your company Val and also smart move on making him expose his balls for kicking. That’s the only way they should be kicked I think.
Do you see the man around work or only when you meet for his evaluations? Also, it’s good you have no limit on the pain or damage your kicks could cause his ball bag. It has to be that way. Thanks Val, can’t wait to hear how the next one goes.
I am the only one doing the punishments for now, but torturing testicles is very enjoyable work so I'm sure more women will show interest in the future. I also believe that all female managers should have the right to order and perform punishment on male staff.
ReplyDeleteI do see him at work and actually had an opportunity to bust his balls again this week. There was a minor misunderstanding between me and him so I decided to punish his testicles by crushing them under my feet. I always enjoy crushing a guy's manhood under me plus the swelling seemed to have mostly gone down from their previous punishment so it was nice to bust them again. I only did two 1 minute full weight crushes so I don't think his balls were damaged too much but I was still happy with his pain.
Hey Val, thanks for your response, I would agree that more women will probably show interest in giving men proper male discipline when needed. I also agree with you that female managers should have the ability to discipline a male employee with a kicking session.
DeleteI bet the man gets nervous when he’s around you, I wonder if he tries to avoid you? I hope he is a man about things and doesn’t embarrass himself or us males.
Ouch!! Full weight ball crushing is very difficult to endure. I have had my testicles stepped/stood on by a woman a few times Val. I gotta say that’s a really tough punishment for a misunderstanding as you put it. I hope his testicles heal quickly and I’m glad he will be going into his 2nd evaluation with relatively healthy balls. His next evaluation must be rapidly approaching? It’ll be so interesting to see how it plays out Val.
Also, a quick question if you don’t mind Val….Have you ever punished a man by standing on his penis full weight? I have also had this done. My ex girlfriend would get me rock hard and have me sit on the floor back against the wall and spread my legs, she would then stand on my hard on especially the head of my penis. It would always be so red and have little dark purple bruises on the head of my penis. It hurts a lot. Also, standing on the balls is especially painful if they first have to endure a kicking session and are already sore and swollen.
Hope to hear your thoughts Val and keep kicking those balls!!
Hi Val.
ReplyDeleteI'ts very nice to hear the story of the evaluations. I'm a woman who has done ball busting before but I am a manager at a branch shop and employ mainly male employees. The idea of evaulating them in this way sound like a good way to get them to work on behaving better. 80 kicks will be very painful but painful punishments work the best. I was wanting to introduce testicle punishments more to the office but I'm worried if I go too far too fast then some men might leave.
I was thinking of finding which of the men is the most open about these punishments then making up a crime to justify a ballbust session. Then being really nice to him for a few days after and if it goes well doing it again. I'll start off light then get harder as a go. But thank you for sharing its nice to hear other women's views.
Ballbusting is great for improving male behavior plus it's a lot of fun for women, so I would definitely encourage you to introduce testicle punishments at your office. Especially if you employ mainly men as keeping them under control is all the more important. I think your plan of starting with one man to introduce punishments to the office is a good one. Make sure he sets a good example and punish him harshly for any objections. I wish you success in your efforts and hope you have a great time busting some balls!
DeleteVal, I had been meaning to ask you this question and I kept forgetting.
DeleteAs the woman in charge of male discipline and the handling of evaluations and punishments at your workplace, do you ever worry about other female coworkers possibly making things up about a man or accusing him of things he maybe didn’t do? I was just curious if you are ever concerned about women using kicking punishments as a way to get back at a man or maybe she just doesn’t like him. Are there rules in place to protect the male testicles from being kicked and possibly damaged without just cause or is he on his own to prove his innocence? Just curious how a woman would handle a situation like that. Thanks Val!!
Personally I don't think this is a serious concern and even if a man is innocent he needs to take his punishment. If a man doesn't want to have his testicles tortured it's his responsibility to act in a way that doesn't happen. So even if a woman was using punishments to get back at a man she probably has a good reason for not liking him, so the punishments are justified. Plus balls are made to be hurt, so any time they are it's a positive thing.
DeleteIn response to the question about penis crushing as I had him place his genitals on the desk for the testicle crushing punishment his penis did get its share of trampling, leaving it equally bruised with the balls.
Val, what’s going on? Thank you for your explanation to my questions. I figured it was on the male to make sure his balls are not punished. I definitely known a few women who also think the male testicles are hanging there to be kicked and hurt. No reason needed.
DeleteThe male that you are working with to improve his work performance should be receiving his 2nd evaluation soon, is that correct Val? I hope his balls and penis have healed quickly if they are going to be kicked soon. This one will be interesting to see if he takes it well or if he starts to break down. Keep us posted Val!! Thanks as always!!
Are other men being punished yet or is this still just in a trial phase? I bet you are excited to start handling the punishment of the men you work with when company wide. Thanks Val!!
Are testicle kicking punishments in the workplace always done by the woman wearing high heels for more potential damage or does the woman have the option of kicking with whatever footwear she feels like at the time? As a man my guess would be most women would choose to wear high heels when kicking a man’s nuts but maybe I’m wrong. A woman who is experienced with hard testicle kicking would be better to speak on that topic. It’s interesting more work places are looking into adopting male discipline policies or have already adopted those policies. I would have to believe that this would be very effective and beneficial in keeping men in line at work. For a lot of males knowing the threat of a testicle kicking is real if mistakes are made or he has a poor evaluation, whichever the case most males don’t want that ball kicking punishment. Very interesting topic and curious to see where it goes from here.
ReplyDeleteI know this blog is about testicle punishments, but what do the women here thing about male chastity? If wearing a chastity cage was mandatory for men working in a company that could also lead to better productivity and improved behavior. The company would hold the keys and releases could be based on work performance.
ReplyDeleteHey everyone, I'm back to report on the second evaluation and I'm pleased to say it went well and I think it was much harder on him this time. This is positive because as a man every bit of pain he feels helps him learn to behave better. In his work review he was awarded -25 kicks for three positives and fined +40 kicks for two negatives, making for a total of 95 kicks. As I inspected his testicles I found they were still a bit tender from their previous punishment but the swelling had gone down. Since the two mistakes were brought to my attention by his coworkers and not by him I spent a moment explaining to him why it was important for him to report his own wrongdoings while squeezing his balls in my hands. He claimed that he was unaware of the mistakes he had made but promised to do better in the future. As we moved on to the kicking both of his testicles swelled up, but his left one grew much bigger. I thought it might pop but it stayed intact until the end. I suspect I broke a blood vessel inside that testicle which will take a long time to heal. The balls looked amazing and hugely swollen after the punishment and I'm sure I was able to cause them a good amount of damage, hopefully of the permanent kind. As before I had fun working with him and am looking forward to working with him again.
ReplyDeleteThank you for the update. It does sound like you broke a blood vessel to get swelling like that. There is probably good bruising on the testicle wall then damage to the internals as well. That must have been a brutal session but its good that he is taking it well and its nice to see you being fair with him.
DeleteThanks Val, as always that was a Great description of his 2nd evaluation!! You definitely fined him extremely harshly for his 2 mistakes if you don’t mind my male opinion. I do understand it wasn’t a good look on his part for not reporting his mistakes to you but if he really wasn’t aware maybe the fine could have been a bit less harsh? I obviously have testicles Val and maybe I’m thinking more with them than how a woman who is punishing the balls would be thinking. I get that.
DeleteVal, were the 95 kicks all delivered with high heels again? His poor balls, it sounds like you were definitely trying to damage them. I must say though Val, I’m very happy for the man that he still intact and hanging tough, as a male I know how difficult that must have been but I am concerned his testicles may not fully heal in time for his next evaluation as some damage was definitely caused to his left ball. I’m guessing he needs to be on Perfect behavior and get all his work done so his balls are not punished before his 3rd evaluation is due.
How do you think the man took the kicks Val? Are you happy with where he’s at after 2 evaluations or does he have some things you want to see him improve on? Thank you as always for sharing his evaluations and his progress Val!! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and I am very curious how his 3rd evaluation goes? I hope he can take it and his balls can stay strong for you Val. I hope he can rebound strong from this!!
Thank you Lucy. He did struggle a lot with the pain but the restraints I had him in helped him stay still in position and helped me get in some great shots on his nuts.
DeleteVal, thanks for sharing his progress on his work evaluations. I have a few questions if you wouldn’t mind answering.
DeleteDoes the man cooperate with you while you’re restraining him for punishment?
Was he in a restrained in a standing position with legs spread for easy testicle kicking access?
I was also curious if the male discipline policies are for all male employees? Is there an age to young or old where you wouldn’t consider trying to damage the testicles with your kicks?
Thanks Val for sharing your experience, I hope he continues performing well for you and hopefully for him his testicles will heal in time for his next evaluation.
Hello Lucy and everyone! Just wanted to drop in for a quick update: I was talking with some of the women in the office and the topic of penis torture came up. We all agreed it would be good for my male test subject to experience some so I decided to go ahead with a session. I was thinking of burning his penis so he has that to look forward to next week along with his third evaluation. After the next evaluation we will also start taking steps to adopt the new policies company wide.
ReplyDeleteThank you very much for the updates and info you share here. I think Penis burning is a good idea defiantly. It can really help a man to learn and can be done in a fair and ethical way. I hope he understands that and sees the benefits penis burning can bring. Will you be using a flame or hot water/oil to administer the burns and how far were you thinking of taking it?
DeleteVal, is the penis burning to happen before his 3rd evaluation? If so, I would think your kicks during his evaluation/punishment will probably hurt his dick almost as much as his balls. Wouldn’t burning his penis kill nerves so further punishment couldn’t be handed out if he has no feeling? I don’t know much about it, I always prefer the man’s penis be punished by full weight standing/crushing. Barefoot or with heels or hard shoes can cause extreme torture for a male. The shaft becomes dark red and bruised and depending on the bottom of the heels/shoes the woman is wearing she can scrape the penis and cause damage.
DeleteI’m very interested in hearing how his 3rd evaluation goes Val. His testicles are probably starting to weaken from all of the kicks with heels. This one will be fun to hear about.
Thanks for the update Val. Couple questions if you don’t mind..is his 3rd evaluation his final one or do they keep going for him? Also, when your company adopts the male discipline policies full time will you be in charge of all male employees at your company? Will all males have to report to you for punishment? Most interestingly, do the men you work with know about the new discipline policies they will soon be under? Any sense around the office or building of the male options and feelings about the policies?
DeleteThank you Val for any information you can give. This is an extremely interesting but very important job you and your company are doing Val. I wouldn’t doubt moral improves around your office once the males are actually being held accountable.
Thank you Lucy, I'm interested to see how he responds as well. I'm going to use a flame to burn him. I was thinking of focusing more on the tip but we'll see. I think it could be good for the shaft to experience some of the flame as well.
DeleteI think a flame works best. Its a great way to apply heat to the penis for sure. This tip is very sensitive so that will be a good place to start. slow, steady applications of heat. It will be intersting to hear what this views on penis burning are and how he reacts to hearing it will now be added to his evaluation. Men squirm when its mentioned and they always want to get out of it but know they have to support it or they get more fire.
DeleteSpeaking as a man penis burning is extremely painful. Its hurts massivily and leaves marks but that is what makes it so good as a punishment. when it was done to me I found the tip hurt the most especially the frenulum or banjo string. Hold the flame to that part for at least a few seconds.
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