punishment story - adam

A guy called Adam emailed me a story and he points out how many women do not fee comfortable punishing men. Its sad and it shows we have a long way to go. i like his idea of us discussing ways to solve this.

I’m a 35 year old man who is also a feminist and like many men I accept the whole concept of female superiority. Women make more rational decisions, think more logically and behave far better. I think I was first introduced to the idea of a woman kicking my balls as punishment about 7 years ago and it has happened maybe 30 times since then.

Like many men I support this and see the benefit it provides. I see a huge reduction in sexual crimes from men and men behave better knowing there is a consequence. The pain also helps me to see a mistake and to learn from it. I really get a lot from times where my crime is explained and I am kicked and over the course of the kicking the woman keeps going back to explaining why she is kicking my balls.

So while it is painful to have my testicles kicked I see the benefit it provides. I also actually prefer the pain in some ways. In the past I noticed if I upset a woman she would be angry at me and annoyed. Her upset would manifest in her disliking me and an issue could drag on because there was no fair way to deal with it. Whereas now, if I upset a woman and cooperate with ball kicking it is painful but she can punish me and the issue is over. Not only that after the punishment as I thank her for punishing me the woman is usually happy with how I took it and our friendship is stronger.

This is why I support woman doing this and I feel a woman should punish a man as harshly as she feels it right for the crime.

So any way I thought this was all clear and we lived in a world where women were free to discipline men to help them improve. But I now see it really isn’t.

I work live alone in a large house and work long hours. I work from home and from an office so I have little spare time so I have been hiring a cleaner to help me with jobs around the house. I put up and add for a cleaner and hired a 30 year old woman who lives locally. We agreed she would come around for 3 hours twice a week and for a few months everything was ok.

One day I told her I would be home at 13:00 to let her in and pay her wage in cash. There was heavy traffic and I didn’t get home until about 13:15 so she was left waiting outside. She did not look happy with me and lookup upset as she worked in the house. I asked her what was wrong and she was nervous about talking to me. It took a while for her to open up but she said that me being late was disrespectful and I should pay for it but she was scared of losing the work so she didn’t raise the issue. I asked her what she meant by “pay for it” I told her it was ok to be honest and explained I was a feminist and she said I should be punished.

Thinking about it I realised I was late and that is a fair reason to punish me. She was right to want to punish me for that and no one would think it was unfair. I was surprised at why she didn’t just tell me she wanted to kick my testicles, I would have defiantly cooperated.

She explained she didn’t want to lose the work and was worried if she punished me she I would fire her. That never crossed my mind and I would never do that. I explained she has every right to punish me if she wants for whatever reason she wants and I would support her. I told her she does not need to ask she just tells me she has decided to kick my balls and then we do it.  I said I would even pay her extra for the time so she wasn’t here for free.

I felt really bad about her not being comfortable just telling me and get the impression she has worked for men who have abused their position to avoid fair punishment. After the chat she looked much happier and we talked about my punishment.

We agreed on 40 hard kicks to my balls while she wears her knee high boots. We closed the curtains and I stood in position to take the pain. She kicked hard and my testicles were swollen at the end. I could feel sharp pains inside my testicles so she didn’t hold back. She looked to really enjoy herself as she hurt me. At the end I thanked her and we hugged.

She said she felt much better about everything now she had done that and I said I was grateful. We then agreed to help me learn the punishment would be repeated in 2 weeks time. I thought that was a good idea and I welcomed her to punish me for anything she desired.

I feel much better now and we work batter together. But this has shown me that some men are still working against this and not all women feel comfortable punishing men. I originally thought I should have told her from the start she could kick me but not all women are aware of ballbustign and she might have thought I was being a creep. Its hard bringing it up as a man for that reason. I’m glad things are ok now but I can see there are still problems but I’m not sure how we can solve them. I wrote this to share my experiences and open up a discussion.

Thanks all

Adam